If you’ve just hit the big 3-0 and want to throw a send-off to your roaring twenties, there’s no better way than a "Death to My 20s" birthday party. This trendy milestone celebration is a mix of dark elegance, over-the-top drama, and spooky-fun vibes — perfect for anyone who wants to say goodbye to their youth with style. Think all-black outfits, gothic decorations, a dramatic “bloody” cake-cutting moment, themed cocktails, and morbidly fun activities.

Whether you’re going for full-on funeral chic or a more glamorous black-tie meets Halloween aesthetic, this guide will give you everything you need — from Amazon party decoration must-haves to food and drink ideas, entertainment suggestions, and more.

Death to My 20s Party Decorations

A true “Death to My 20s” party starts with the atmosphere — and that means transforming your space into a gothic yet Instagram-worthy venue.

1. Black Everything

• Black tablecloths 

• Black dinner plates & cutlery 

• Black balloons 

2. Funeral Vibes with a Glam Twist

• Faux tombstones for the entrance 

• Black roses in gold vases 

• Moody candlelight 

3. Photo Backdrop for Instagram

• “RIP 20s” neon sign 

• Black fringe backdrop 

Drinks

• The Blackjack Martini — a classic cocktail for the theme.

• Black vodka cocktails with dry ice for a smoky effect. Discover Everything You Need to Know About Using Dry Ice in Cocktails.
• Blood-red sangria with floating orange slices.

Party Activities

1. Horror Movie Corner

Create a chill zone with black beanbags, popcorn, and spooky classic movies like The Addams Family or Beetlejuice .

2. Murder Mystery Mini-Game

Turn your party into a short, spooky whodunit 

3. Dance Floor of the Dead

All-black strobe lights and fog machine for a haunting dance vibe.

4. Smash the Twenties Piñata

Get a coffin-shaped or skull piñata and fill it with adult-friendly goodies — think mini liquor bottles, dark chocolate, black candies, or funny “aging survival kit” items.
Pro tip: Blindfold the birthday person for maximum drama (and photo ops).

Dress Code

• All-Black Glam — think black sequins, leather, lace, and velvet.
• Funeral-style veils for guests.
• Gothic makeup inspiration.

Conclusion

Your Death to My 20s party is more than just a birthday — it’s a funeral for your youth and a celebration of your next chapter. By combining dark, dramatic décor, bloody dessert moments, and spooky-yet-glam activities, you’ll create an unforgettable night your guests will talk about for years.

With these Amazon-friendly party essentials, planning is easy — just click, order, and get ready to raise a glass (or a coffin-shaped cookie) to the death of your twenties and the birth of your fabulous thirties.